Dealing With Impotence Condition

Filed under:Universe Of Gender Issues — posted on October 26, 2007 @ 12:09 am

All men over the age of 30 experience impotence as least once in their lifetime. Estimating the numbers is difficult because less than 2 men in 10 seek treatment for impotence problems. The conclusion is impotence is a very common problem in men.

The big problem is it seems that for a large number of men, their ability to get an erection and have sex is viewed as an integral part of their masculinity and potency and can be debilitating to his mental health.

First reaction of a man dealing with impotence is to make excuses or avoid sexual situations with his partner in an effort to forget about the condition. This tendency can often leave the partner feeling unloved, unattractive and unwanted. By consequence, the man’s failure to communicate his condition may contribute to frustration, stress or depression in his partner, or even lead to relation failure.

Encountering this problem, men must think first that this is a very common male problem. He is neither alone nor unusual. There are over hundred million partners of impotent men!

Then, next step is to communicate with the partner. Couples who can talk openly about this condition have a great advantage. Sharing fears and worries is a first step toward feeling better.

Woman’s emotions regarding the impotence of her partner can be complex as well. But she must not forget that the male partner is going through similar strong emotions.

It’s generally known that about 85-90 percent of erectile problems are caused by an existing medical condition. Woman’s help and understanding of situation is very important. In a spirit of friendly cooperation, she must offer her support in solving partner’s problem going together to see a doctor.

Valerian D is a freelance writer specialized in health issues affecting men such as erectile dysfunction impotence.

Alternative Breast Enhancement Options

Filed under:Universe Of Gender Issues — posted on October 23, 2007 @ 4:37 pm

For women searching for breast enhancement solutions, there are
generally about three options. The most popular breast
enhancement options include: 1. Plastic Surgery 2. Breast
Enhancement Pills and 3. Padded Under Garmets. Each of these
breast enhancement options have strengths and weakenesses.
Following is brief overview of the top three breast enhancement
options.

1. Plastic Surgery/Breast Augmentation: Breast Augmentation
involves surgically placing implants, mostly silicone, behind
each breast in order to increase volume and improve shape.
Breast Augmentation can be performed at any age after the
breasts are developed. Breast augmentation is the fastest way to
achieve breast enhancement, however, nearly 64% of women regret
having breast augmentation surgery. Common complaints include
burning, heaviness, scarring, unnatural feel, leaking, pain. The
high cost also is prohibitive.

2. Breast Enhancement Pills: Breast Enahancement Pills are a
tricky bunch. Many companies are just plain selling crap, that
simply doesn’t work. The most common complaints include weight
gain with no actual increase in bust size. Breast enhancement
pills can work, but studies show in concert with other methods.

3. Padded Undergarmets/Filler Cups: The old standbys. Padded
bras and filler cups are good for an instant fix and gererally
works great under clothing. You can also put them on and take
them off at your will. The problems are that you do have to take
them off , you can’t wear them in a bathing suit and you don’t
get the permanent change that you really want.

There is however a third and very effective option. Studies have
shown that breast massage coupled with the proper herbal
supplement can increase breast size without the negative side
effects of bad herbal breast enhancement pills.

Breast enhancement is a very personal choice. It is also a very
universal desire of millions of women. Nearly all women want the
nice, firm breast of their youth. There are very few options
that will provide that. Cost and safety are two main barriers
preventing many women from getting what they want. Breast
enhancement options must be looked into very seriously and very
carefully. However, they do exist for the determine woman.

Andropause and Erectile Dysfunction

Filed under:Universe Of Gender Issues — posted on October 9, 2007 @ 8:25 am

One of the signature symptoms of Andropause is erectile dysfunction (ED). An embarrassing, nerve-wrecking experience, ED is when a male cannot perform for his female partner. In layman’s terms, it is the inability to have an erect penis during sexual activity.

It is the primary issue amongst men in regards to their sex lives. Let’s become acquainted with how a full erection works and why this condition exists. Men under the influence of Andropause have erectile dysfunction no matter what’s on their mind. Thinking of a nude Playboy centerfold model would likely induce pleasant and sexual thoughts into a man.

Sexual thoughts, however detailed or brief they may be, are produced in the brain. After all, the brain is responsible for thinking. These sexual thoughts directly spark nerve signals down through the spinal cord and into the muscles of the penis. These nerves send a flow of blood running through the arteries in the penis while it is in a relaxed state, building pressure.

A man without Andropause can have a constant, steady flow of blood flowing to his penis arteries in a good amount. The more blood that flows down there, the harder and longer your erection will be! When sexual thoughts creep out of your mind and you’re focused on another activity, your penis returns to its relaxed state. We can guess Andropause sufferers are going to have to do something else rather than think about that nude Playboy model to obtain an erection!

Erectile dysfunction can attribute to psychological causes. Psychological causes can include having fear of our female partners (especially when it is a specific person with whom we feel shy with), depression, lack of self esteem, and cluelessness as to what to do with certain parts of the female anatomy. Our bodies are exposed ¨to the air¨ and we often times feel ashamed of what we look like to our partners. Mind thoughts and emotions that are pessimistic in nature not only affect your mental state, but the performance of your penis as well.

As with other medical conditions, the effects of impotence can be magnified if we do not follow a proper health regimen. The top dog in promoting erectile dysfunction is the use of drugs, particularly the cancer sticks you find over the counter – we all know which one that is. Cigarettes reduce the amount of blood flow to the penis. Undergoing surgery and prescription drugs also contribute to the problem, like tranquilizers, medications for seizures, beta blockers, and diuretics. Even a simple over the counter drug like NyQuil Cold & Sinus (a decongestant) can reduce blood flow to the penis, at least temporarily.

We’ve probably all seen those commercials before. You know, the one with Rafael Palmeiro (major league baseball player in his late 30´s) promoting the use of a special pill known throughout the globe as Viagra. Viagra is a staple of American culture – the subject of endless tonight show monologue jokes and a popular conversation topic anywhere. At a cursory glance, Viagra may seem like a sideshow attraction, but its been proven to be one of the most effective drugs you can take for erectile dysfunction.

Using Viagra requires a doctors prescription, but it is so readily available you can get away without one. Before considering going on this pill, maintain a healthy lifestyle and build up those testosterone levels naturally. Make a visit to your doctor to discuss a proper dosage and see if Viagra is right for you. Remember, there are many erectile dysfunction pills out there – the goal is to see which best suits your condition. Don’t fret over this condition – with the plethora of solutions and medications combating this problem, you’ll be sure to be fine in no time.

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Verbal Self Defense – A Critical Factor in Self Defense for Women

Filed under:Universe Of Gender Issues — posted on October 8, 2007 @ 8:51 am

Verbal self defense, the use of your voice in a threatening situation, is an extremely important tool in protecting yourself. How? Uncommon to popular belief, criminals do not pounce on an individual when the mood strikes them. They attack when they see an opportunity available to them. If it’s easy, they will take it. They will prey on those who are weak, unaware, and an uncomplicated target. Criminals will act on premeditation, or stalk their victims ahead of time before attacking. If you show that you are familiar with your surroundings, walk with confidence, and give off the impression of strength, a criminal will not want to work to fight you.

Keep you eyes on everyone. Just because they might not ‘look’ like an attacker, doesn’t mean that some guy in a business suit can’t be one. If someone is approaching you, look them in the eye, hold out your hands in front of you and yell “Stay Back!” or “Stop!” Most sexual assailants interviewed say that they leave a woman alone if she showed that she wasn’t someone to be messed with or wasn’t afraid to fight back.

It’s called putting up a verbal boundary or verbal self defense. Many who have used this as part of their self defense training say they were amazed when they stepped toward a threatening stranger and yelled “Back Off!” in a strong, assertive, projecting voice. And the would-be assailant did just that.

Using pepper sprays can work in the same manner. Just by aiming at a potential attacker and yelling, “I have pepper spray!” can be a deterrent. That’s if it is in your hand at the time.

Pepper sprays are only effective if properly used. Telling your would-be assailant that you have pepper spray… and it’s at the bottom of your purse is not effectively using it, or any weapon or self-defense product, for that matter. Whether its mace, a stun gun, or even your keys, have it readily available, in your hand. More self defense products can be found online at on this great website www.safetyquestproducts.com

Knowing how to use these devices also plays a huge role in protection. You must know how the device works and be familiar with it. How? Practice. Practice. Practice.

When using mace, go outside and shoot a tree. See how the pepper spray really works. See the distance it takes to reach a target. If you’re going to use your keys, pre-plan ahead of time just exactly where on an attacker you would jab them. The eyes and throat are terrific targets. Tell yourself, “I will use this if I feel my life is in danger – No Question.” and without hesitation.

There are places that actually have computer simulated mace practice rooms. They are extremely life-like. These are the same simulation rooms that police and security officials use for their own training. Check with you local law enforcement to see if they are available in your area.

This type of training helps to program the mind during adrenal-stress. Or another form is called Body Alarm Reaction (B.A.R). You must train the mind with a stressful situation or adrenaline response to know just how you will react during an actual confrontation or attack. How you react in a B.A.R. moment will let you know if you’ll hesitate in a life or death situation.

Knowing how verbal self defense works can be a terrific safety tool for woman in preventing them from falling prey to an approach of a stranger. Verbal self defense is also another way to build your confidence in yourself. It allows women to see the power of their voice, the protection they can have from their voice, and to not feel threatened by anyone.

EzineArticles Expert Author Michelle Annese

Michelle Annese is a 3rd degree black belt with 15+ years experience teaching industry specific self defense and safety for women and children. She is author of The Realtor Survival Guide, Protection for Women, and The SafeGuard System for Kids. For more information on how to protect yourself and your family go to http://www.protectionforwomen.com Check out other articles by Ms. Annese and get her free safety tips e-newsletter.

Sun Rays: Harmful or Beneficial?

Filed under:Universe Of Gender Issues — posted on September 17, 2007 @ 2:23 pm

The argument never stops.

Human skin has special cells, melanocytes. These cells provide
natural, built-in sun protection. You can see it in action each
time you tan. Melanocytes produce dark brown substance, called
melanin, which does not allow sun rays to penetrate deep into
the skin layers as it would be damaging. At the same time sun
light stimulates cell generation, skin becomes thicker, and
therefore more resistant to UV rays. Turns out the sun is
actually good for the skin.

Well… People with fair skin don’t have enough melanin
producing cells, their sun protection mechanism is not strong,
and these people get sun burns pretty quickly. UV rays have a
very strong biological effect, they can damage protein molecules
and even alter genetic material causing healthy cells become
malignant. So tanning is bad.

Could say so, but… Sun energy is good for health. Increased
blood flow to the skin stimulates cell regeneration, helps to
fight acne, smooth scars and minor skin imperfections. Sun light
is a necessary factor for Vitamin D production. Sun stimulates
immune system and makes us feel happier and healthier.

So where is the truth? As always, in the middle.

Human body needs sun, but at the same time it must be protected.
To make contacts with sun enjoyable (as they should be),
remember: - The most dangerous sun is between 10 a.m. and 3 p.m.
- Sun rays penetrate glass windows, so being in the sunny spot
inside your house or while driving is just as dangerous as being
outside. - Don’t be deceived by cold weather or clouds: clouds
let UV rays through, and UV radiation is not felt as heat. -
Water won’t prevent sunburns as the harmful rays can penetrate
water three feet deep.

Wearing sunblock at all times is the best thing you can do for
your skin. Apply it 20-30 minutes before going outside so that
the lotion absorbs and starts working. People with lighter skin
should take extra precautions: wear hats, avoid direct sun
exposure, use sunblock with a higher SPF and reapply it more
often (remember, your skin does not have a strong sun protection
mechanism, so it needs your help).

UV exposure is a major factor of premature skin aging. Sun rays
are able to penetrate deep into the skin, dehydrate it and
damage collagen tissues. Free radical damage may not stop there.
Free radicals, the unstable molecules that appear during sun
exposure, can damage healthy cells and lead to cancer.

Skin has a wonderful ability to repair itself and fight off the
damage, but it needs proper nutrition to be able to do it
effectively.

To help your skin repair itself more successfully, use products
that contain antioxidans able to halt the destructive activity
of free radicals.

Vitamin C, when applied topically, not only neutralizes free
radicals, it boosts skin’s ability to repair itself after the
sun damage (American Academy of Dermatology, 2002 meeting). It
is also shown to reduce the appearance of wrinkles and help to
maintain an even skin tone.

Coenzyme Q10 is another powerful antioxidant. It is found in
beef, fish, grains, eggs, beans, and spinach. Human body makes
its own CoQ10, but the production declines with age. Coenzyme
Q10 has exceptional antioxidant properties. Studies show that it
can effectively counteract free radical damage and provide
significant protection against UVA-induced depletion of cell
membrane. In other words, it will prevent damage to collagen and
elastin production and help you avoid wrinkles.

Omega-3 fatty acid (alpha-linolenic acid) is essential for
healthy looking skin. Some studies suggest that it may inhibit
cancer. Fish oil and many plant oils (canola, flaxseed, hemp,
soybean) are rich in this acid. In cosmetics it is present
either as a constituent of another ingredient (for example: Emu
oil) or by itself.

Vitamins E helps to prevent skin dryness and protects against
environmental factors and free radical damage. It is used in
creams and lotions that relieve skin redness after sun exposure.

So stock up with skin armoring lotions, enjoy your summer and
keep your skin safe and beautiful. And if you would like to have
a bronze tan all over, get one in a bottle.

Eating For Healthier Hair

Filed under:Universe Of Gender Issues — posted on September 14, 2007 @ 6:50 am

Is your hair not growing to its full potential? Is it unhealthy
and dull? Then you might find the solution on your fridge or
kitchen cabinet. Believe it or not your diet might have a lot to
do with your hair’s health.

Here is your guide of vitamins, minerals, and amino acids that
are essential to you hairs health.

Biotin- peanuts, oat bran, eggs, liver, mushrooms, Bananas,
tomatoes, whole-grain cereals, lean beef

Zinc- wheat germ, lean meat, oatmeal, split peas, mozzarella
cheese, yogurt, cow milk, shrimp, parsley, liver

Methionine- dairy products, fish, meat, wheat

B-5 (Pantothenic) - sweet potatoes, yeast, eggs, fish, legumes,
avocado

Magnesium- bananas, vegetables, walnuts, died fruits, cocoa

Consult your doctor before making any changes on your diet.

Cialis Basics

Filed under:Universe Of Gender Issues — posted on September 12, 2007 @ 10:02 am

Introduction
Sex has been the part of the life since the day Adam saw the apple. Man has been striving to achieve a better performance in order to satisfy both his as well his partner’s requirements. Age, hormonal imbalances, society, money and many other things have not been able to remain a barrier for long in this quest. Medicinal herbs, fruits and certain exercises such as meditation have helped him in one way or the other but there has always been a search to help men in his erectile dysfunction in nearly all cases with having minimum of the side effects. Viagra hit the market in 1998 and was an instant success in that regard. But due to its side effects more research was still needed and a new product was about to come. Cialis then came and with its minimum side effects profile and the greater half-life was what people needed the most.

What is erectile dysfunction?
Erectile dysfunction is the inability of the person to either initiate or sustain a penile erection for a sufficient period of time that is needed to attain a sexual gratification. The causes of it may be many for e.g. psychological, hormonal, arterial or muscular. The diseases associated with it are Diabetes Mellitus, Major Depression, certain thrombotic disorders, etc.

What is cialis?

Cialis and drugs related to it like Viagra act by inhibiting an enzyme called phosphodiesterase type 5 which release Nitric Oxide from nerve endings and endothelium causing relaxation of smooth muscle and hence penile erection. This is a product developed by Eli Lilly and ICOS and it is a trade name of the product called Tadalafil launched in the market in 2003.

What are the advantages and side effects?
Although the vasodilatation that is needed is in penis, due to the extreme non-specificity of the product there are certain side effects related to vasodilatation at other sites such as headache, nasal congestion, stuffiness, and fall in blood pressure. Some patients complain of loose motions. These side effects are more applicable to products such as Viagra than to Cialis. Some patients have suffered heart attack and severe fall in blood pressure.

Who all can benefit?
Men with erectile dysfunction due to some arterial disorders will benefit the most. It doesn’t benefit those with hormonal problems or psychological problems except those with Diabetic neuropathy. There is a myth that a person as soon as taking the drug will have erection but that is not the case. It starts taking action only when a person starts physical activity.

How is cialis better than others?
Cialis has a half life of around 36 hours while that of Viagra is around 4 hours that means that a person can take the drug and can expect to have erection at a time much later than the time of administration. This achieves much patient compliance.

What is the latest research that is going on?
The latest research that is going on is hormonal therapy and genetic therapy in this regard. These are basically to avoid the side effect profile of these type of drugs.

Tia arora writes cialis basics topics. Learn more at http://www.cialislifestyle.com.

Five Easy Ways to Reduce Menstrual Cramps

Filed under:Universe Of Gender Issues — posted on September 3, 2007 @ 4:01 am

Menstrual cramps, also known as dysmenorrhea, is recognized as
the single greatest cause of lost school and working hours among
women which is estimated at 140 million hours annually in the
United States alone.

Unlike before, menstrual cramps is now considered as a serious
medical condition. Thus, in addition to the usual home remedies
of dysmenorrhea, health experts and practitioners alike are
giving some helpful tips that can help women during that
particular painful time every month. Here are some that we have
listed just for you.

1.Try an over the counter Ibuprofen. It can be found as the
active ingredient in several OTC medications, such as Advil,
Nuprin, and Motrin IB. The OTC dose per pill is 200 milligrams.
The recommended dose is one tablet every four to six hours (or
two, if one does not work), not to exceed six in a 24-hour
period. Prescription formulations come in dosages of 400 to 800
milligrams.

2.Try taking an oral contraceptive. Oral contraceptive pills can
be quite useful in treating menstrual cramps because they
decrease the amount of menstrual tissue formed and lower the
pain level (amplitude) of the uterine contractions probably due
to their progestin effect.

3.Try an over the counter mefenamic acid. Mefenamic acid
effectively relieves severe menstrual pain while also reducing
heavy menstrual bleeding, easing menstrual migraine, and easing
the physical and emotional symptoms of premenstrual syndrome.

4.Try to eat small frequent meals because a lot of food causes
blood sugar to swing up and down causing symptoms of PMS.
Instead of eating three large meals, eat five or six small meals
a day, about two and a half hours apart.

5.Exercise can help alleviate painful menstrual cramps by
raising the level of beta-endorphins, chemicals in the brain
associated with pain relief. Exercise raises the levels of beta
endorphins, which have a positive effect on mood and behavior.

6.Reduce salt intake to prevent water retention that causes
bloating. Likewise, avoid liquor and other alcoholic beverages
to reduce headaches.

7.Learn to relax. Rest, sleep and relaxation exercises can help
reduce the pain and discomfort of menstrual cramps. At least
take time for a relaxing massage or bath with oil made with
chamomile, lavender, marjoram, ginger and/or clary sage. They
are aromatic and can aid in relaxation.

8.Visit your health care provider if excessive pain and cramping
persists.

Do not live in pain. So next time a painful menstruation
strikes, try these simple tips.

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Top 10 tips to Look Great at Christmas Parties whatever your Size

Filed under:Universe Of Gender Issues — posted on September 1, 2007 @ 9:00 am

1. Fake it until you make it

If your flesh is looking pale and pasty, get a fake tan to look
great for the party season. Somehow golden brown looks slimmer
than pale and uninteresting.

2. Have a make-over

Treat yourself to a make-up lesson so your party face looks
glamorous and up-to-date, especially if you’ve been wearing the
same tired old make-up for years. The right make-up can take
inches off your face and draw all attention to your eyes rather
than your size.

3. Beat the bloat

For a few days before any big event avoid alcohol and caffeine,
and drink lots of water to flush out toxins. Eat lots of fresh
fruit and vegetables and eat only small quantities of other
carbohydrate foods, keeping to wholegrain rather than white
varieties of bread, rice or pasta. If you can afford it, try a
body wrap treatment before a special occasion - although the
results won’t last for long.

4. Get the size right

Whatever you wear make sure it fits. There’s nothing more
unsightly than a body trying to bulge out of an uncomfortably
tight dress. If you can’t easily do up a garment then go for a
larger size. Better to have a simple outfit of black trousers or
long skirt and an evening top than a designer creation that
looks less than beautiful on you.

5. Simply does it

Avoid clingy and shiny fabrics, loud prints and bulky details
such as gathering, ruffles, puff sleeves and fluffy trimmings
which tend to draw unwanted attention to your size.

6. On a budget?

If you can’t afford to treat yourself to a new outfit, update
last year’s little number with some new fun jewelry or an
evening bag. Or you could look around the second-hand clothing
stores and pick up a bargain. If you have a really big occasion
think about hiring a dress, especially if you’re in the middle
of a weight loss program.

7. Wrap it up

If the tops of your arms are a bit flabby, drape a velvet or
satin stole lightly around them for a glam look. You’ll feel
chique and elegant. Or choose a dress with long sheer sleeves.

8. Under cover

Remember to wear the right undies so that they support you
properly and don’t show horribly under your outfit. Get fitted
for a new bra (especially if you’ve lost or gained weight
recently). Most large department stores have specialist fitters.
And look out for the Bridget Jones type magic knickers that keep
your tummy and thighs firmly in check. Wear dark sheer pantyhose
or stockings rather than lighter shades and avoid chunky shoes
which make legs look heavier.

9. Shady lady

Stay away from light colours which tend to add pounds and choose
dark shades. If traditional black doesn’t suit you try navy or
some of the beautiful plummy tones around.

10. Be You

Make the effort to look the best you can for your party, but
don’t forget that it’s your smile, your posture, your confidence
and your whole personality that will be remembered, not your
dress or your party shoes. So walk tall, smile and go enjoy the
party.

Copyright 2005, Janice Elizabeth Small

Wear Animal Jewelry for an Alluring Natural Look

Filed under:Universe Of Gender Issues — posted on August 24, 2007 @ 7:35 pm

Looking for a design that’s chic and at the same time
unconventional? Try your luck at animal jewelry. Far from being
tacky or inelegant, animal designs are actually rather
distinctive. Finely crafted jewelry with animal motifs lends a
mysterious air to the person who wears them.

Graceful jewelry patterns can be achieved with animal motifs.
Dolphins, snakes, swans, and other beautiful beings of nature
depict naked beauty and mysticism, and including images of them
in jewelry inspires this “look.” Moreover, the carnal appeal of
wearing nature-themed jewelry should not be bypassed; sporting
nature-themed accessories speaks of someone who is in tune with
an “inner animal.” If we’re going to talk sex appeal — well,
animal jewelry may just be an understated way to achieve it!

Animal jewelry is also a great way of encouraging environmental
awareness and love of nature — even among children. A child who
has a favorite pet may appreciate having animal jewelry to
remind him or her of that pet. In fact, if the pet were
domesticated enough to sport a little jewelry as well — like a
cat or a dog — it might be great if master and pet could have
matching pieces! Like a pendant for the collar for Poochie,
which could also be worn as a bracelet charm for Nancy.

In fact, not only children would appreciate jewelry that would
remind them of favorite pets. If one had a favorite animal, a
pet, a totem spirit or just an animal with whom s/he identifies
with, a piece of charm jewelry would be a great gift. An
accessory that reminds one of a pleasant thought is always
something that makes one glow.

The inner strength one derives from inspiring motifs is one of
the best things about animal jewelry; when a person is calmed or
energized by the sight of a familiar animal, it affects one’s
mood and the way one looks at things. In fact, Native American
tradition believes that animals can give you strength and
guidance. Jewelry symbolizing these animals may serve as a
reminder for someone who desires to be stronger in one
particular aspect. For example: the dragonfly symbolizes
illusion, the deer symbolizes gentleness, the bear means power,
and so forth.

A person may select his/her ensemble based on his/her
philosophies, or simply the feelings of the moment. A person who
wishes to give another the gift of animal jewelry may consider
which particular animal/s the recipient brings to mind. This
requires a personal touch, and this in itself makes the act of
selecting animal jewelry a cherished moment indeed!


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