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Most of us have experienced certain moments of joy. Yet there are many people are walking around habitually sad, depressed, anxious, stressed, worried, angry, burned out, shut off or numb. Is it possible to rise to a higher state of greater joy, and to experience the everyday, easy flow of spontaneous, automatic joy?

Many religions and spiritual teachings instruct joy is an inner quality. The belief is at the core of each person lies calm, radiant joy. In other words, everyone is born inherently happy. If joy is every person’s birthright, why don’t we all feel joy most of the time? For starters, we have taught ourselves, with much repetition, to focus on things which make us feel worse. We have become addicted and accustomed to feeling bad about ourselves. Stress and worry are common strategies utilized to poke, prod and push away what feels bad but without then connecting to what feels good. Sure, we may say we want to feel happy, but the behaviors we practice don’t bring us any closer to joy. Pain and discomfort are tolerated. Worries are clung to, unhappy thoughts dwelled upon. Critical thoughts are acceptable, routine and automatic. We are experts at postponing joy.

Here’s how we usually handle life situations: An unpleasant experience is encountered. Anxiety, frustration, anger, worry, or a helplessness belief is felt. Tons of energy is focused on the problem itself. Not on what is wanted, but on the problem. The problem or unpleasant experience is fixated upon, worried over, analyzed, kicked around, picked at, obsessed over. The mind conjures up worst case scenarios. The overemphasis of attention on the problem creates additional uncomfortable feelings. A physical stress response is initiated creating a fight, flight or paralysis response. We drive ourselves into quite a frenzied state of feeling badly. All because we mistakenly believe the external situation must be resolved before we can feel better.

How To Feel Good

If indeed at the core of every being lies joy itself, than the process of experiencing joy is an internally directed, self-allowed state. In other words, joy is a choice. There is no problem to be solved first. There is no event, no person, nothing external which can provide the state of feeling good we search for. There is nothing to accomplish, achieve or attain before becoming worthy of feeling joy. Joy is not something to be earned. We don’t have to be popular, thin, rich, good enough, nice enough, or even pretty enough to have this feeling of joy. Individually we allow, or disallow joy.

The next time you are feeling something less than joyful, try this little experiment. Acknowledge the aspect of self which isn’t feeling good. Ask, “What must I be thinking or believing to feel this bad?” Then remove attention from what feels bad and connect the imagination with what is wanted. At the very least, it’s good amusement to see how glued on we are to who wronged us or what is wrong with us. The stickiness of feeling badly is quite interesting. Instead of quickly removing attention from something which feels painful, we remain there. It’s like having our hand on a hot burner and not removing it. While our hand sizzles, thoughts play with the pain, questioning who’s fault it is our hand is currently on the burner, how to blame and hurt the person, or how to blame ourselves for having this experience. The simplest course of action seems to be removing the hand from the burner, thereby feeling better instantly. Amazingly, it requires gathering together of a tremendous will to move past painful emotions to a better imagined outcome.

To feel greater joy we willingly choose to go through a process of teaching ourselves the importance of feeling good, loving ourselves and wishing ourselves well. We decide to care more about how we feel than about what is happening. Self-love is the desire to feel good most of the time. Loving ourselves involves a decision to stop dancing with a problem and instead choose exciting ideas and enlivening thoughts as new dance partners.

Nothing Is More Important Than Feeling Good

Emotional pain is an inner guidance system. It simply informs that our current thoughts and emotional focus are not aligned with love of self. Emotional pain is a big clue to move on to something which feels better, looks better, sounds better. Learning to interpret physical sensations is how we understand if we are on the right track. We feel bad and recognize we’re not on the right track. No harm done. It’s just time to make some adjustments and find a situation, experience, thought or belief which feels good. If we are not feeling good, this is useful information concerning exactly what we don’t want. Our responsibility is to love ourselves to such an extent attention is consciously turned toward what is wanted. Imagination allows us to dwell on a preferred outcome and feel better almost instantly.

“Nothing is more important than my feeling good.” We can’t control circumstances outside of ourselves. Life is full of experiences. But we can, with practice, decide what goes on inside. In each moment we can choose what we want to think about, what we wish to imagine, and what we choose to feel. If we are not thinking thoughts creating feelings of safety or joy, we can choose again. We always have within the “freedom to choose” a slightly better thought or vision. “What can I do, in this moment, while I’m feeling unhappy to produce enjoyable sensations or experiences?”

Learning to become obsessed with feeling good takes time and practice. Happiness is a decision and one which must be supported with thoughts and actions. And it’s not a one time decision. It may be a daily, or even hourly, choice to remind ourselves feeling happy is our primary concern in life. We alone are responsible for creating our experience. Teaching ourselves to stay in present time, and to focus on what is wanted (instead of worrying) is a gradual process. Yet, it is possible to learn how to remove attention from disruption, anger, worries and stress, and instead place focused and excited attention on new desired outcomes. We determine how much time is spent playing in feeling good or feeling bad.

To each person, infinite potentials, infinite ways of being are available. From wherever we stand, from whatever unpleasant or unhappy situation is currently being experienced, another possibility is available for us to choose. However much joy is embodied, more is possible. The amount of power available to any one being is always capable of expanding. If life isn’t happy or joyful, recognize alternative potentials simply do not arrive on their own. We advance into greater joy by our own efforts, by self-motivated and self-constructed ways and means. We are the masters of our own destiny, fr*ee to shape our own evolution. It takes some determination, but we are capable of lifting our hearts into greater possibilities, lifting ourselves out of the stickiness of feeling bad and into more exciting imagined outcomes. Remember, today, in this moment, feeling good is available.

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Helping people let go of self-destructive thoughts, emotions, and behaviors has been the life work of Dr. Annette Colby. Her fascination with the power of the mind, emotions, spirituality, and physicality has led her to become a leader in the field of personal growth and consciousness. She is a valued counselor, and an inspiring teacher, as well as an independent writer, mentor, and guide. She is a highly sought-after trainer with a unique ability to inform and inspire individuals to open their hearts, love more openly, and pursue their dreams.

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“Opening Creative Portals to Success”

Do You Know You Have the Power to Harness Huge, Hidden Powers
of the Universe?

First there is your mind:

- your conscious mind: ideas, thoughts, emotions, attitudes
etc. you can directly perceive or conceive.

- your subconscious mind: your past, deeply hidden ideas,
thoughts, emotions, attitudes etc.

Then there is the unconscious mind, which is collective,
universal, common to all human beings and to all the Universe.

This Universal Mind has been called: Intelligent Energy, Supreme
Energy, Superconscious Mind (Carl Jung), Collective Unconscious,
Thinking Energy, Infinite Intelligence (Napoleon Hill), Supreme
Power, Intelligent Substance (Wallace Wattles), The Oversoul
(R.W.Emerson), Supreme Intelligence, Universe, God, and many
other things.

I personally prefer to refer to it as the “Universal Intelligent
Energy” (UIE).

It is everywhere. It is all-embracing. It permeates the totality
of the Universe.

It knows no difference between past, present and future (time),
here and there (space), what has been and what will be, what you
have now and what you want in the future.

The UIE makes no difference between thoughts and physical
objects.

And it has the ability to solve your problem. It has “all
abilities”, for that matter.

Your individual, conscious mind can join the UIE through various
channels, such as meditation, affirmations, visualizations,
intuition, telepathy, precognition and premonition…

For example: In his book, “The Sense of Being Stared At, and
Other Aspects of the Extended Mind”, Rupert Sheldrake a
Cambridge-trained biochemist quotes a dream that occurred five
days before the 9/11 terrorist attacks. “Mike Cherni, a forensic
scientist who worked 300 yards from the World Trade Center, had
a dream he was on an airplane. He became alarmed as the plane
took an unusual flight path very low over Manhattan.

“It was clear that we were flying directly south over the
southern tip of the island,” Cherni’s explained to the
researcher. “Then there was a tremendous impact and I woke up.
This dream disturbed me for days afterward, enough that I
described the dream to my wife.”

Sheldrake talks of “a kind of collective unconscious that allows
members of a species to draw from, and contribute to, the
collective memory of the species.”

In this article, we’ll be talking more specifically of
affirmations and visualizations.

If you express your “wants” or “wishes” often enough
(affirmations/repetition), they get impressed (or imprinted) in
the UIE, after travelling from your conscious mind and through
your subconscious mind. Finally, they become real, physically
real, because your wishes eventually pervade the whole Universe,
get into contact with whoever or whatever can fullfil them, and
get fullfilled.

For, “there is no problem without a solution”. Problems and
solutions follow each other like night and day.

Maybe it should be more accurate to say that problems and
solutions co-exist in the UIE. Or that they search for each
other like two eager lovers or Siamese twins who must urgently
be joined back together.

And the individual mind’s job is to join them together: this can
be achieved through the repetition of affirmations and through
visualizations i.e. seeing yourself as you are AFTER you have
received what you want.

A.M.Sall

There are so many times women, no matter what type of shoes they are wearing, have to go toe to toe with a world ruled and ran by men. My experience today is one small example that compounds on the many others each day to frustrate even the strongest feminist heart.

This afternoon I was waiting for a flight back to DC in the American Airlines
Admirals Club and decided to enjoy an alcoholic beverage. However, the (female)
bartender informed me that she did not have the ingredients for the amaretto sour I
had ordered. No problem, nothing unusual there, I would just order something else.
“What can you make that’s fruity,” I asked. “Nothing really,” was her response, “just
the hard stuff.” Did she have a Bacardi O or a Smirnoff Ice? Nope, and she pointed
me to the long line of beer bottles from which I could make a choice. I told her I’m
not a beer drinker and must have looked quite confused since I’ve never had such a
difficult time ordering a drink. She had an idea; she could make me a martini. Great!
I told her an apple martini would be fantastic. Oh, but she didn’t have the
ingredients to make an apple martini, just the regular one. Hmmm.

That’s when I got it - this bar was stocked for men. The hard liquor, the beer
selection, and the lack of a feminine selection of drinks made it abundantly clear
that American Airlines felt only men should be gracing their privileged club. Of
course that makes sense, since only men could possibly be successful enough to
afford the pricey club fees, right?

Beaded Sandals and Laptop Computers

So I took a quick glance around to see how many other women were in the club.
There were quite a few. There was a mom with her kids. A few businesswomen were
pounding away at their computers and headphones connecting them to their cell
phones.

After this lengthy ordeal with the bartender, I settled for a coke, sauntered off to
rejoin my carry-ons, and opened my computer up to type this piece. Behind my
leather armchair sits a businesswoman eating a quick lunch. To my right is another
businesswoman with her high tech gadgets strung across a table while she works
from the airport between flights. She is dressed a bit more “butch” than the rest of
the women here, a step many women had to take just to make it in the business
world.

I refuse to conform though. I’m wearing my favorite beaded sandals, my turquoise
bracelet is dangling from my wrist just below my manicured hand and my hair is
long and flowing - not pulled back in a bun or business do. I look professional, but I
don’t look manly.

The Best Man for the Job Can Be a Woman

Whether in business, politics or society at large, women are more than capable of
integrating with feminine grace into areas previously restricted to men only. I know
it’s a dog eat dog world out there, but women have been putting up with those
same kind of dogs for a long time inside the house - so we have no problem dealing
with them outside of the house as well.

Women do not want, nor do we need, to be protected from the mean world. It
infuriates me to hear patronizing excuses from men for hiring a woman to do a job
they cannot do themselves instead of just resigning to the fact that they hired the
best man for the job and she is a woman.

No Backing Down

I will continue to frequent American Airlines Admirals Club and other such places
just to let the boys club know it’s time to take the “Girls Not Allowed” sign off the
door. It’s also time to get some feminine drinks in the bar. This is not a man’s world
anymore; it is a human world now. Women are not invading their space - we are
simply occupying space that rightfully belonged to us all along.

In a few minutes I’ll board my plane and sit in first class, where I can at least get an
amaretto and Sprite. It seems women are expected to travel first class, but not as
businesswomen. During my flight, I will start an article I was hired to write for a
businessman who has good ideas but doesn’t have a strong writing ability. How
ironic that I am not expected to function in the business world, yet the business
world needs me (and women like me) in order to function.

I refuse to back down one inch on my assertion that equality for women should flow
into every aspect of life. However, I also refuse to relinquish even one of my
feminine traits in my quest for equality. Inequality is the first injustice imposed on
women and the expectation to masculine conformity is the second injustice.

The small things like my experience today will change one by one as more and more
women take their rightful place in the world. Until then, I will politely request that
American Airlines start stocking their bars to accommodate the tastes of both men
and women. After all, a woman needs a good stiff (fruity) drink sometimes too.

About the Author: Stella Ramsaroop is a western world traveler, a life-
long student,
a wanna-be stargazer, and an Aquarius in all its forms (if you know what that
means). Her articles emphasize the importance of the continued development and
protection of gender equality in all aspects of a woman’s life.

Stella is also the proud mother of four almost-grown children with her significant
other Paul, whom she married almost 20 years ago.

Visit Stella’s Website at http://www.newsparade.com/index.htm

Physics is transcendent in its objectivity; an objectivity that
explains our world in layers of realities. Sometimes we may take
this transcendence for granted but there is still a feeling of
excitement that accompanies the strangeness of physics and what
it reveals. Visionary art has this kind of transcendence. This
visionary art is based on the medium of “the vision”. A vision
would be a transcendental seeing of reality. In this meaning
transcendental would be the way the world actually is but is
rarely seen.

Reality has these layers which only one is usually perceived as
existing. Beyond what is normally deemed reality the other
layers can be perceived through acts of seeking the vision and
sometimes by accident of some inheritance unknown to the seer.
Visionary art in this context would be an illustration in its
metaphysical, transcendent reality, or truth of divine nature.
Corroboration of the truth in the artwork comes from some kind
of recognition from the observer of the art.

Some discovery may have been made in the past by an individual
that observes the Visionary art in the now. This discovery may
have been too strange or too much like fancy to exist. The
visionary art can corroborate the objectivity of scientifically
untestable subject matter. Subject matter can be formed by any
deeper layers of reality that would be normally fairly hard to
describe or prove in another context. Awakening of something
within a visionary art observer is often reported. This may seem
like the observer in question is having a transcendent vision of
their own but is more likely a transcendent recognition of the
deeper layers of reality.

Evidence of the transcendent truth of existence is shown like a
fleeting shadow of a bird within the observer of the visionary
artwork. Upon seeing the artwork there may be no initial
understanding, thus no recognition. Yet upon later reflection
there may be a recognition based on new discoveries post viewing
of the art. Visionary art is a language describing the beauty of
underlying layers of reality.

Physics reveals a reality that’s tenuous in its objectivity at
the base level. Visionary art has it’s nature stemming from the
gossamer essence that is all too real underneath everything.
Like a mirror underneath reality is the force of manifestation
that breaths existence into being. Visions of this reflective
minds eye become more real in the illustration of the Visionary
artist.

The recovery from Katrina and Rita ushers in a new era of Disaster Recovery and Prevention. Governments and people are rethinking their response to disasters and the steps they can take to prevent or minimize the worst consequences. The biggest catalyst for this new era is the political fall-out from Katrina.

The slow response to Katrina was a black eye for the Bush administration. For Michael Brown, the ex-head of FEMA, it was a national humiliation. The fates of Louisiana governor Kathleen Blanco and New Orleans mayor Ray Nagin remain to be seen, but reports have pointed out their failures in prevention and response, and that will come into play at election time.

President Bush wants to make up for the bungled response (and restore some political capital)and has earmarked a recovery effort that may total $200 billion dollars. The early response to Katrina has become a cautionary tale for politicians and bureaucrats in federal, state and local governments, and you can be sure they will be pushing for more disaster prevention spending in their own particular fiefdoms. And the media is keeping watchnewspapers in California have been filled with stories warning about the lack of disaster (especially earthquake) preparation in the state.

The Army Corp of Engineers, burned by the lack of follow-through on their recommendation to raise the New Orleans levees, is now looking to repair vulnerable areas around the country. And they’re not the only ones.

New homes have multiplied along vulnerable coastal areas. From Florida to the Outer Banks up to The Hamptons and all throughout the east coast, coastal property values have soared. Dune Road, a sliver of land with pricey homes between the ocean and a bay in Westhampton, New York, was virtually wiped out by flooding little more than a decade ago. Now it has been rebuilt with even pricier multi-million dollar homes. You can be sure these homeowners will spend what it takes to protect their properties.

And they may need to because it looks like big storms are brewing. If many meterologists are correct, we may have entered a cycle of increasing frequency and severity of hurricanes.

Combine the measures slated for homeland security, rebuilding the Gulf coast and the ramp-up of disaster prevention around the country and you have a near permanent state of disaster recovery and prevention.

For some companies, let’s call them Hurricane stocks, the opportunity to take part in the Gulf recovery means a great deal of more business in the short term. For others, it may mean more business for many years to come.

Hurricane stocks are companies that are needed right now. For instance, the immediate need to help those whose homes have been destroyed or are unhabitable. Think of companies that provide temporary living and survival gear. Think of Coleman camping products, such as tents, sleeping bags, portable stoves, flashlights. Coleman is owned by Jarden (JAH:NYSE).

Manufactured homes have come a long way in the past decade, and will prove to be a good temporary solution for many and a permanent solution for others in the Gulf. Cavalier Homes (AMEX:CAV) has been contracted to build and deliver manufactured homes to the Federal Emergency Management Agency to house Gulf Coast residents displaced by Hurricane Katrina. The contract is expected to generate $58 million to $63 million in revenue for the company.

Some other compnnies in this sector include Champion (NYSE:CHB), which partners with nearly 3,000 independent retailers, builders and developers, Fleetwood Enterprises (NYSE: FLE) and Coachmen Industries Inc. (NYSE:COA).

Oil and gas facilites in the Gulf coast also need emergency repair. The economy of the Gulf Coast and, to an extent, the economy of the U.S. depends on it. A number of drilling rigs were damaged in the storms, which means that a company like ENSCO (NTSE:ESV) which owns drilling rigs in the area, will be in big demand. Oceaneering International (NYSE: OII), which inspects and repairs underwater infrastructure of oil facilities, will be busy, as will Jacobs Engineering (NYSE:JEC), providing engineering and construction services to oil and gas companies.

Rebuilding the Gulf Coast

Rebuilding will include the big dogs in construction, like Halliburton (NYSE:HAL), The Shaw Group(SGR) and Caterpillar (NYSE:CAT). But many smaller companies will also take part, often as subcontractors. The Army Corp of Engineers has increased its task order from $10 million to $20 for Aduddell Roofing, a subsidiary of Zenex International, Inc. (OTCBB:ZENX). National Storm Management (NLST:PK), an expanding national construction company specializing in storm restoration management, will also do a good deal of restoration work in the Gulf Coast.

To build you need building materials. Home retailers such as Home Depot and Lowe’s will be seeing their orders increase, but so will companies that provide raw materials like timber. Take a look at Rayonier (NYSE:RYN)and Plum Creek Timber (NYSE:PCL), two REITs that own and manage timber properties.

Some Hurricane and rebuilding stocks have already jumped and retreated. But the point to remember is that while the hurricanes resulted in an immediate need to help those in dire need, they also ushered in a new era, an era when governments and people in the U.S. and around the world know they can do more to recover from disasters and minimize the consequences. So keep an eye on companies that will be at the center of the Disaster and Prevention theme for years to come.

Leon Altman founded www.InvestingIN.com and www.SmallcapRecap.com, two websites that offer news and commentary on stocks. Sign up for free newsletters on the sites.

Outside the buds are experiencing a rebirth and the tulips are welcoming spring with their annual sense of renewal but inside your home it may be a totally different story.

Has winter left you with a cluttered living space?

Is your disorganized home depleting your energy and depressing your spirit?

If so, it’s time for a little spring cleaning of your home, body and soul. Do yourself a favor and make spring cleaning and conquering clutter part of your annual routine.

Okay, so it sounds good, but who has the time? All the more reason to stop and make the time. Think of it as an investment in you. The inefficiency of clutter and disorganization are not only counterproductive but also harmful to our well-being.

Following are some of my favorite creative solutions and organizing tips to get you on the road to becoming clutter free.

Get The Family Involved

Sending everyone away for the weekend may seem like the good solution but having them pitch in is even better. Aside from getting some help, they also learn first hand how putting away their own things can keep clutter and last minute panic at bay. A valuable lesson is learned from having a place for everything and having everything in its place.

Decide on a weekend to get started and make sure everyone knows there is no calling in sick. Assign tasks according to individual strengths and interests. Failing that, draw jobs from a jar.

Purge

Parting with things can be difficult, especially when they have been part of your nest for a long time. If you can’t decide whether or not to give something up, put it in a garbage bag and store it out of sight. After six months if you haven’t opened the bag to retrieve something or better still, if you have forgotten what you put into it in the first place - get rid of it!

One Room At A Time

Clean the room from top to bottom. Once finished, assess what really needs to be in there. Get rid of anything that doesn’t support the function or needs of the room. Now may be a good time to remove the TV from the bedroom.

Organize piles

Sort items by creating different piles e.g. charitable donations, recycling, mending, garbage etc. Assign someone the job of mending so no items in need a repair, end up back in the closet.

Create hobby space

We all need our personal space and the hobbyist in particular needs both a functional work surface and storage area. If you don’t have what you need to get organized, start a list and put it into action. If not, you’ll soon find yourself sliding back into a familiar clutter zone.

Sherrie Le Masurier is a lifestyle columnist, an organizing consultant and a member of Professional Organizers In Canada (POC) who offers smart solutions for busy families via http://www.familysanitysavers.com - Copyright.

Thai women are very beautiful and, unlike many Asian women, they usually don’t gain much weight as they age.
They are delightful companions.

Thailand’s economy is booming, but there is still a wide gap between rich and poor. Many people in Bangkok live in slums and many people in the North and Northeast are poor peasants.

They have traditionally sent their daughters to massage parlors or allowed them to be the second wives of rich men.

Yet many prostitutes in Bangkok are well-educated and
relatively affluent.

Some work regular jobs during the day and simply supplement their incomes by working parttime as escorts or hanging around certain coffee shops late at night where foreigners know to come.

Educated Bangkok women who aren’t prostitutes are
among the `nice’ women of Asia most willing to go out
with foreign men on a date.

They’re relatively sophisticated and exposed to Western ways. Yet they retain the traditional virtues of honoring their husbands and being faithful.

They have a nudity taboo, but are not inhibited
physically, because they’re not taught by their religion that the body and sex is evil. They know men need and want sex and their role is to give is to their husbands.

Even when they don’t like it as much as you, they don’t have headaches. English is taught in Thai schools, so educated Thais speak it fairly well.

One thing to remember if you start to stay with one for a length of time, even a bar girl, is that they are jealous.

Many Thai men do have mistresses. They keep them apart from their main family.

Many Thai men go to massage parlors and many Thai women even encourage this, but only because there’s no emotional entanglement.

Traditionally, Thai women picked out their husband’s
second wife when he could afford one, but the first wife’s status was guaranteed.

Dao Jones, the founder of http://www.asian-girls-dating.com is connecting Asian women to Western men in a very unique and succesfull way.

In his all time best selling book, Think And Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill mentions in his first chapter that throughout the book he will be referring many times to The Carnegie Secret. He said he would not tell you what that secret is, but when you are ready, it will jump off the page and into your brain. He said, When the Student is ready – the master will appear. The doors will open. The lights will turn green. The ideas will come. The money will come. The people will be there to help you.

Since 1970 we have been teaching the principles of success that Andrew Carnegie commissioned Napoleon Hill to study and share with the world. Napoleon Hill spent his entire lifetime researching the most successful people of all times from around the world.

Many, many times in our classes, workshops, talks, rallies and in our Master Mind Alliance Success Club meetings we have asked this question to those in our audience who had read the book Think and Grow Rich,

What is The Carnegie Secret that Napoleon Hill referred to in his book?
We got all kinds of guesses and some answers that were somewhat close.

HERE IS ——- THE CARNEGIE SECRET

1. Have A Definite Major Purpose.

What is the most important thing you would like to accomplish in your lifetime? Try to define it in one paragraph, even if you have to keep rewriting it a hundred times until it gets as clear as possible. It has to be the most important thing in your life. Mahatma Gandhi’s definite major purpose was to win independence for India from their British rulers. He succeeded. Dr. Martin Luther King’s was equality and the end of oppression for black people. Doctor Jonas Salk’s was to find the cure and end for polio. Thomas Edison’s was the incandescent light bulb. What is yours?

If you don’t currently have what you feel is a definite major purpose, then have a definite major purpose to find your definite major purpose.

It has to be something you want so bad that you think about it all of the time.

2. Be Willing To Stake Your Entire Existence On Achieving It.

Don’t Quit. There Are Many Starters In Life, But Very Few Finishers – When The Going Gets Tough They Quit. A person with a definite major purpose never gives up – no matter how long and tough the road is; instead, they become more determined. Jack London was rejected over 600 times before he finally sold his first piece of writing. Thomas Edison actually failed over 9,999 times before he perfected the incandescent light bulb, and over 5,000 times before he perfected the world’s first phonograph record player. There will be times when everything in you will tell you to quit – to stop trying, but if you hang in there, eventually, you will – you must succeed. Quitters never win and winners never quit.

Persistence is the power to hold on in spite of everything - to endure. It’s the ability to face defeat repeatedly without giving up—to push on even in the face of great difficulty or danger. Persistence means taking pains to overcome every obstacle, to do all that is necessary to reach your goals. You win, because you refuse to become discouraged by your defeats. Those who conquer are those who endure.

3. Keep Intensifying Your Desire.

There are many “firemen” in life that will come along and try to put your fire of desire out. They will give you all kinds of reasons why your idea or goal won’t work and tell you to give it up, forget it, or tell you “You can’t do it.” You have to become an Arsonist. An arsonist sets fires. Every morning when you wake up you have to re-light and re-build the intensity of your fire of desire. You have to eat it, sleep it, walk it, talk it, and concentrate on it until it becomes a red-hot flaming, burning, obsessional desire that will eventually mow down all of the opposition you will face throughout each day. If you don’t, your Sizzle of desire will fizzle down to nothing. I’m not suggesting that you stop talking to or seeing your family and friends – what I’m saying is to keep focused day and night, seven days a week. This will bring into play: THE LAW OF HARMONIOUS ATTRACTION. Your burning desire becomes a magnet. You will attract that which you need; the ideas and plans, the money you need, and the people you need to help you. They will eventually gravitate toward your desire.

4. Have Bulldog Determination And Perseverance That Will Eventually Mow Down All Opposition.

Expect lots of problems, adversities, and discouragement along the way. Go around it – go over it – go under it – or dig a hole through it – but don’t ever turn back. Make your Definite Major Purpose the dominating thought in your mind. It is a known fact that people who have had great achievement – formed the habit of making an “obsession” of their Definite Major Purpose. Andrew Carnegie said to put all of your eggs in one basket and then watch the basket. Andrew Carnegie’s definite major purpose, which he wrote down at an early age and kept in his desk, was to earn as much money as he can in life and then, in the end, to set up the Carnegie Foundation to give it all away to worthy causes. Even after his death long ago, the Carnegie Foundation is still giving away millions every year to help mankind.

I have been teaching The Science of Success Achievement Course since 1970. There were many times when I taught the course to as many as ten different groups per week. Some in major hotels, some in large corporate training rooms, in the YMCA, in hundreds of real estate and insurance offices, in prisons, rehab centers, and for many sales and marketing groups of people.

In all of my classes, (There were ten separate 4-hour classes to the course,) I always told my students at the end of the first class – “For your homework this week, I want you to read the first four chapters of Think And Grow Rich (I always had stacks of the book there to sell them.) As you read each page, write a list of all of the things the author is telling you to do and the things he is telling you not to do. Then, I want you to carry that list with you every day and keep reviewing your list and keep doing the things the author told you to do. And then come back to class #2 next week and tell the class about the list you made, what actions you took as a result of reading the book, and what results you got.”

At the beginning of the class on the following week I would always start out by asking - By a show of hands, how many of you read the first four chapters of Think And Grow Rich? About 2% would raise their hands. The rest didn’t take the time to read it. Then I would ask the 2% How many of you read the first four chapters and made the list I told you to make of all of the things the author told you to do? Usually about three hands went up. I asked each of them - How many items do you have on your list of the things the author told you to do? The first person said three. The second person said nine. The third person said – 90 items

I asked the person who had ninety on her list to come to the front of the classroom.

I said to the others - You people paid good money to take this course because you wanted to achieve greater success. How can you expect the results you hoped for if you aren’t willing to take notes and to put in practice what you are learning?

Then I had the lady read from her list of 90 items. And the class was surprised at how powerful and important the things on her list were.

I asked the class - How many of you are speed reader? All kinds of hands went up. Then I told them about an incident when I was at a party and someone asked me what I do for a living. I told him that I teach a course based around the book Think And Grow Rich. He said, “That’s a book that we teach from at our speed reading school.” Then I asked him, “What were the greatest lessons you learned from the book?” He tried to think and then said, “I don’t remember that book so well.” I later found out that he was a speed-reading instructor. I thought to myself – There’s a guy that can read 10,000 words a minute and remember nothing.

Think And Grow Rich is so powerful that it’s the kind of book you have to read very slowly and carefully, many times until it becomes a part of your life and habits. I have been reading the book every year since 1970. Each year I pull it back off the shelf and let it fire me up for the achievement of my new goals for the year.

THE CARNEGIE SECRET FOR SUCCESS
Excerpt From The book
“The Science Of Success Achievement Course”
By Rick Gettle © 2006

Rick Gettle

Publisher/Author/Consultant/Speaker

http://www.master-mind-alliance.com
Successercising@msn.com

Success Achievement Publisher/Author/Consultant/Speaker - Since 1970

The words you use in goal setting are very important.
There are different opinions amongst experts about which words
work best when you set goals - but there are also points on
which most experts agree.

Let’s assume that you want to set a goal in relation to getting
fitter. Maybe you’re a bit overweight or you just feel sluggish.

First, there is general agreement that the first word in your
goal statement should be ‘I‘.

Next, the second word should be a verb in the present tense. So
for example, rather than saying I will be fitter, it’s better to
say ‘I am‘ fitter.

Third, you need to be specific. Saying I am fitter is too vague.
Let’s say that you want to be able to run a mile in 6 minutes.
You could word your goal ‘I run a mile in 6 minutes‘. It
may well be that currently it takes you 10 minutes to run a mile
- or maybe you can’t even run a mile. Forget that. You need to
state your goal as if you can already achieve it.

Now here are two points about goal setting wording on which
experts disagree. My suggestion to you is that you test out for
yourself to see what works.

First, some people say you should put a time deadline on your
goal. Others disagree. If I was setting a new goal today, I
would not set a time deadline unless the time deadline was
significant. For example, maybe you want to lose weight by your
wedding day.

When you set a goal, and also every time when you write down you
goal or speak it to yourself, you are giving instructions to the
goal seeking part of your brain called the HREF="http://www.make-your-goals-happen.com/reticular-activating-
system.html" rel="nofollow">reticular activating system. This part
of your brain cannot tell the difference between ‘truth’ and
‘fiction’. Your mind will help you achieve your goal regardless
of time deadlines.

Second, most goals gurus say that you should set goals which, in
your own mind, are realistically achievable. The other opinion
is that you should set goals which are possible but extremely
unlikely. I prefer to set goals which I consider to be
realistically achievable. Your mind will only help you if your
self image believes that the goal is possible. You can read more
about this in my article on HREF="http://www.make-your-goals-happen.com/psycho-cybernetics.ht
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goal setting.