Students Of Success

When most “dating gurus” and sex therapists spout their dating
tips, they often complicate the whole process with unusable
theory and psychobabble.

I’m going to bypass that, make it brain-dead simple for you, and
most importantly, reveal a few dating tips you can apply in the
real world. In these dating tips, I’m going to share with you
the little-known concept of the “three types of women.”

There’s a wonderful book you should read called “Winning Through
Intimidation” by Robert Ringer. You can get it on Amazon for a
few bucks (get the original version published in the 1970’s, not
the new “touchy feely” one.) Many people are turned off by the
title, thinking it’s about “scaring” people into giving you what
you want. That’s not what it’s about, though. It’s actually
about protecting yourself from intimidation. It’s also a fun
read, full of hilarious stories and even a few cartoons (of
turtles wearing sunglasses). But it’s a book each and everyone
looking for dating tips needs to read, because the part I’m
about to share with you absolutely applies to interacting
successfully and effortlessly with sexy women.

In the book, Ringer talks about the three types of people in the
business world- and in my experience he’s 100% correct. Here
they are. Type #1- this is the guy who is out to get all your
“chips” and lets you know about it. This guy is
“straightforward” about his intentions, what some would call
honest. Type #2 this is the guy who assures you he is not out to
get your “chips”, and in fact, tells you he wants you to get
everything that is coming to you. Then he attempts to grab all
your “chips” anyways. Type #2’s are the most treacherous type.
Type#3: this is the guy who assures you he is not out to get
your chips, and sincerely means it, but by his bumbling,
stumbling or just pure incompetence he winds up trying to take
them anyways (even though he doesn’t mean to). How do the “three
types” translate into a usable dating tip?

And, how does all of this relate to success with attracting sexy
women? Well, it’s been my experience that women fall into,
roughly, these three types as well. Type #1: she’s
straightforward with you about her intentions… whether she’s
into “fun friends,” or looking for a husband, she is forthright
with you up front. She knows herself and what makes her happy.
Type #2: this is the woman who appears to be straightforward
with you about what she wants… but for whatever reason, she’s
out to get your money, deliberately break your heart, or she’s
just pissed at all men -what a female friend of mine called a
“cruel woman.” Like the above type #2, the operative word here
is “treacherous.” Type #3: this is the woman who truly believes
herself when she tells you what she’s looking for, but for
whatever reason, bad things seem to happen around her… she “self
sabotages” whenever things are going good, and winds up wreaking
great emotional havoc on the men in her lives, even though she
doesn’t mean to. The result is still the same as dealing with a
Type #2, though, and that’s why it’s vitally important you pay
close attention to the above dating tips.

Obviously you want to spend your time with the Type #1’s (in
business and with women) and avoid the Type #2’s. If you pay
attention and listen for her, what I call, map/model of the
world, you can usually identify the Type #2’s. You’ll hear
things like “my last boyfriend was cheap, he wouldn’t take me
out or buy me things.” Or, things like, “I drove by his house
and a strange car was in the driveway… he was cheating on me.”
Here is a dating tip that will save you time, money, and
heartache: when you hear things like this, run away FAST.

Type #3’s can be more difficult to identify. It usually takes a
lot longer, and you have to pay careful attention. Listen for
things like, “It was going along so good, and I just don’t know
what happened.” Type #3’s are controlled by their “inner world,”
not in control of it. That’s why I usually recommend starting
any relationship as just “fun friends” so you can begin to get a
clear picture of her map/model of the world and pinpoint her
Type. A lot of what appear to be Type #1’s in the beginning
actually identify themselves as Type #3’s later on down the
line. You can never stop paying attention, or you will get in
trouble. Dating tips like this one can be applied, and used day
in and day out. Start paying attention to this, and watch just
how true this is. It’s the difference between happiness and
misery!